37 points jgx0 5 hours ago 48 comments

adospace 1 hour ago | parent

Hi Jacob, Ado here, from FounderMail. I'm really glad you ended up on-boarding with us, and I wanted to reach out to thank you for the review and feedback.

The manual approve to outbound sending helped a lot to keep spammers out of the platform.

We ensure that domain exists and you're the owner, the website is legit, etc, making impossible for a bot to operate throughout our channel.

And is working, almost 4 weeks in, no complaints, less than 0.1 bounce rate.

You know, having an high reputation is vital to ensure the emails we send on behalf of our customers are reaching the inbox not the spam folder.

Said that, you continue to be right: it's annoying. We're working to reduce the pain autoapproving it for cases like your.

Thank you again (I hope you'll never find a reason to leave us! :)

jgx0 26 minutes ago | parent

Thank you for creating such a great service! It’s always great using a product and getting to thank the developer directly. Your platform seems perfect so far and it was extremely quick to get approved for outbound sending (definitely less than 12 hours). Seems to be working perfectly so far, and I don’t think i’ll be switching anytime soon.

bakugo 19 minutes ago | parent

> making impossible for a bot to operate throughout our channel.

Somewhat ironic, given your entire website is AI generated.

MarcellusDrum 12 minutes ago | parent

You're saying that building their own website using AI is equivalent to sending spam emails?

handoflixue 4 minutes ago | parent

Building a website with Claude is literally "a bot operating on their channels". Whether these are morally equivalent is an unrelated axis - it's the literal claim that's being disputed

stingrae 6 minutes ago | parent

Is it actually free to use? i cant find the pricing page

shaewest 5 minutes ago | parent

I went to your site to check this out, and I found the bright orange from the first slide was killing my eyes, and my coworkers. The other landing page slides were great, the first one made me want to leave.

Overall looks like a great tool that I'll look into for my next projects.

patriciobcs 1 hour ago | parent

Why not using iCloud custom domains? Is the simplest option if you want apple mail compatibility

pyuser314 1 hour ago | parent

I second this recommendation. My custom domain emails work wonderfully through Apple iCloud account.

Lalabadie 46 minutes ago | parent

Ditto. The cheapest iCloud subscription includes everything necessary. My partner and I both have emails through our respective personal domains, all on the same sub – I think the limit is 3 custom domains.

sherry-sherry 20 minutes ago | parent

iCloud Mail will silently filter emails with certain words (including in attachments).

You aren’t told something has been filtered and it doesn’t go to spam. It’s just deleted with zero recourse. The sender isn’t notified either.

https://talk.macpowerusers.com/t/icloud-mail-what-to-do-when...

I had this happen as recently as June 2026 when my current provider was up. It happens on @mac.com @me.com @icloud.com and custom domains.

newsforb 1 hour ago | parent

I can recommend Lark. Free tier does everything.

ruuda 1 hour ago | parent

The shared hosting package that I bought with my domain 20 years ago from a local hosting company comes with all of these, it cost I think €12/year originally. They got acquired some time ago by a large hosting company who charges more than €120/year for the same package. Then I switched to another local mail provider who charge €40/year (but with more storage). Aren't there many such providers?

t0mas88 43 minutes ago | parent

There are, but I've seen several of those price increases in a row so you may be moving a lot. And mail deliverability to Outlook and Gmail from those hosts isn't always great.

throwaway093020 1 hour ago | parent

MXRoute's lifetime plans (which they usually offer around black Friday) are a great option if you can get one. I paid $99 for mine five years ago. The service has only improved since then.

abound 58 minutes ago | parent

I use StartMail [1], which I believe ticks all of OP's boxes (I had similar boxes).

[1] https://www.startmail.com/

Muromec 58 minutes ago | parent

I added my custom domain to my provider email. Yes, those still exist in places

EwanToo 54 minutes ago | parent

Feels weird to ignore the largest players, e.g. Fastmail or Protonmail

frizlab 46 minutes ago | parent

Or iCloud+. He specifically asked for Apple Mail integration ffs

zeeveener 29 minutes ago | parent

I use the iCloud custom domain for my personal email and I can confidently say it's worth the cost.

I am definitely engrossed in the Apple Ecosystem™ though so I can't speak to how it would fit any other setup that isn't almost entirely Apple-based.

ajb 16 minutes ago | parent

Protonmail doesn't have unlimited addresses for sending, which is one of his requirements. It has catch-all , which means you can receive from an arbitary number, so it's okay for one -email-per-vendor, but if you ever need to send via one of those addresses then you have to use up one of your 10 or 20 allowed addresses.

This is because like most other vendors, they do price discrimination based on number of users. Which is no doubt why the other large vendors were also ruled out.

One vendor who doesn't do this is Migadu. I don't use them as they lack 2FA support, but they are one of a small number of businesses who make their proposition easy to evaluate quickly, as opposed to making you swipe through a pitch before you get to the facts. This is so unusual that I remember them despite evaluating them multiple years ago.

LatticeAnimal 50 minutes ago | parent

Protonmail has worked great for me. Never had any issues and I like the inclusion of docs + sheets (even though their apps are ridiculously slow to load)

Wowfunhappy 47 minutes ago | parent

Unless something had changed recently, they don't let you use third party email clients.

adastra22 48 minutes ago | parent

“Integration with Apple Mail” shy not just use iCloud with a custom domain?

frizlab 45 minutes ago | parent

This. It was my first reaction too.

jgx0 24 minutes ago | parent

AFAIK it doesn’t allow you to have a direct IMAP/SMTP login for your own domain.

sherry-sherry 12 minutes ago | parent

iCloud Mail silently filters emails (more info in my comment linked). The sender isn’t told, receiver can’t ever see the message.

https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=49958660

mcv 45 minutes ago | parent

I've got my domain at namecheap, and they just forward all mail to two different pre-existing mailboxes. I configure my mailreader to use my address at my own domain when sending mail, and that works perfectly fine. Sure, headers may show them going through different mail servers, but nobody ever looks at that anymore.

s0rce 43 minutes ago | parent

I use zoho mail, works well.

65 41 minutes ago | parent

Unpopular opinion, but I've used Google Workspace for years and I really like having my email via gmail. SSO and spam filtering and Google Docs. I thought about switching to Amazon Workmail but the price I pay for Workspace is worth it.

TacticalCoder 4 minutes ago | parent

> Unpopular opinion, but I've used Google Workspace for years ...

Not that unpopular. I've used it since way before it was called "Google Workspace" and it Just Works [TM]. Also once you pay for it, suddenly they pick up the phone if you ever need support.

A shitload of SMEs are using Google Workspace to get their own domain and all the Google suite.

I know it's cool to hate on Google on HN but for my part I'll forever be hating on Microsoft and Meta. I tolerate Google.

ryandrake 35 minutes ago | parent

Interesting that self-hosting isn't on his list. It hits every one of his checkboxes and only costs you an old Linux server collecting dust at home (or at most, a $5/mo VPS), which you can also use to host other things.

It's never been easier to self-host, but it feels like, in general, when faced with "I want to do X with a computer," people are more and more reaching for paid, hosted services rather than DIY anymore.

tough 29 minutes ago | parent

Isnt email blacklisting/actually getting mails to inbox infamously hard? I otherwise think the rest of the stack is indeed solved, but its probably cheaper to pay Amazon SES or whatever for getting your emails to an inbox reliably

jgx0 28 minutes ago | parent

I’ve actually tried before to self host on my VPS as well as my homelab that I use for various services. I honestly just didn’t trust the stability of my own services enough for something as important as email. As a project I definitely want to try again in the future.

zeeveener 27 minutes ago | parent

I haven't spent any real amount of time looking into this, but from the basic research I did perform, I found that well-written guides that aren't grossly out of date are hard to find.

Also, my understanding is that Google, Outlook and other major email services have been implementing as many roadblocks for self-hosted setups as possible to the point where it's a constant battle and difficult to keep up with.

cosmotic 9 minutes ago | parent

The problem with self hosting is getting through google, microsoft, etc spam filters.

handoflixue 6 minutes ago | parent

It depends a lot on whether you need the account for reading email, sending email to your own accounts, or sending email to other people. The first two are very easy to self-host.

But agreed that mass-mailing (even account registration style emails) seems a lot less reliable because of those spam filters.

waynesonfire 4 minutes ago | parent

[delayed]

bastawhiz 32 minutes ago | parent

> There was one annoying limitation. I had to submit a special request before I could send emails to new addresses that had not previously messaged me.

Maybe I'm misunderstanding but this sounds absolutely wild. What?

jgx0 25 minutes ago | parent

The founder of foundermail actually left a comment here talking about this. I will likely update the article that it took less than 7 hours to be approved.

wh33zle 32 minutes ago | parent

I can recommend Fastmail. Reasonably priced, modern tech & features, good service. Never had any issues.

zie 21 minutes ago | parent

I use Migadu(migadu.com), but Apple's iCloud email hosting is basically tailor fit to your expectations, so I don't have any idea why you don't use it.

But you can host your own email too. It's not the easiest option, but it can be done, and there has been some newer email server software written that tries to make it easier.

jibalt 17 minutes ago | parent

I just dealt with this due to the impending termination of .name email. I use a combination of gmail as my mail agent, CloudFlare for the domain, and SMTP2Go for low volume outbound with SPF, DKIM, and DMARC. I don't have any Apple usage or requirements.

Oh, I just remembered that I send mail received by my CloudFlare domain to both gmail and zohomail, and use Thunderbird as the mail agent for the latter.

skeptrune 12 minutes ago | parent

I like Fastmail a lot

internet2000 6 minutes ago | parent

iCloud+ mail was definitely a better choice. I'll send my feedback through email.

fortran77 6 minutes ago | parent

I've been very happy with MXRoute

ohcmon 5 minutes ago | parent

I’d suggest cloudflare + resend + https://workspace.google.com/essentials/ (which is $0) + forwarding and alias to personal google account for gmail ui.

Big benefit of this combination is that you get "login with google", docs, drive, hangouts

ivanjermakov 4 minutes ago | parent

Possibly the only free soltuion: setup email forwarding in gmail using https://improvmx.com/about/.

Can even send email, although recipient sees that it has been forwarded.

flowerlad 3 minutes ago | parent

With Google sunsetting support for custom domain in Gmail (scheduled for Jan 2027) I am looking for solutions to sending email from custom domains. Amazon SES works well and is cheap for SMTP.

I want to continue to use Gmail for email storage--mainly because of the awesome search function, but also for longevity--while using a third-party app for pulling specific emails from Gmail and replying to them through my custom domain(s).

The solutions mentioned in this blog aren't that--they have their own storage.