31 points baranul 2 hours ago 62 comments
tfwnopmt 2 hours ago | parent
spottedmarley 2 hours ago | parent
10xDev 1 hour ago | parent
This isn't good if you don't want men becoming increasingly conservative, which is already well underway.
ben_w 1 hour ago | parent
As usual, games of telephone change things pretty radically:
Porn showing choking or incest
- https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=5011593610xDev 1 hour ago | parent
ishouldnotbutk8 1 hour ago | parent
10xDev 1 hour ago | parent
I'm making a point about current general trends and their potential consequences, not listing facts.
gib444 1 hour ago | parent
And a hilarious titbit: cousin incest porn is banned, but in real life, it's not :)
ben_w 34 minutes ago | parent
That's not what a "ban" is.
If it was, I could say "driving cars is banned in the UK if you don't show the insurance company your licence".
> And a hilarious titbit: cousin incest porn is banned, but in real life, it's not :)
At the turn of the century, as a 16 year old myself back then, I noted the same about the UK age of consent being 2 years lower than the age at which you were allowed to watch recordings or be in recordings oneself.
squidbeak 1 hour ago | parent
(Not that Mormon voting was ever directed by Japanese mating habits. But you get my point.)
bryanlarsen 45 minutes ago | parent
This male/female divide is becoming huge in Korea, if I've heard correctly.
10xDev 39 minutes ago | parent
bryanlarsen 34 minutes ago | parent
rayiner 38 minutes ago | parent
simianwords 1 hour ago | parent
Downvoted. but in time it will be clear whats likely the cause of this
anthonj 1 hour ago | parent
"""Among their findings were the rise of sexlessness within marriage, and the popularity of pornography and the services of sex workers, especially among men.
For instance, in some surveys from 2008 to 2024, up to 60 per cent of Japanese men said they had previously paid for sex."""
LaurensBER 1 hour ago | parent
Haven880 1 hour ago | parent
anthonj 1 hour ago | parent
cladopa 1 hour ago | parent
Japanese people really hate physical contact, or any contact by the way.
jonnybgood 34 minutes ago | parent
In my experience of having lived in Japan, I find this simply not true. Of course this is my own anecdata. Physical contact, from my experience, is seen as a more intimate gesture. It depends on the nature of the relationship. In places like America, lots of people would give a hug (at the very least a one arm hug) to their friends when they're parting ways. Japanese don't do that ever from what I've seen, they'll just wave goodbye to each other. But I have seen plenty of hugging, hand holding, and other public displays of affection among those who are intimate.
nickdothutton 1 hour ago | parent
marginalia_nu 1 hour ago | parent
forinti 51 minutes ago | parent
mhitza 1 hour ago | parent
How about you corelate this with cost of living, financial independece, and decreasing socialisation? We are seeing similar trends in european countries.
When my generation was growing up, and reaching adulthood, in the late 90s early 2000s while our own teens didn't have places where to get intimate, outdoor sex was way more common than it is today!
Who in their right mind would do so today when you can't even pick your nose without being caught by some random outside camera or mobile phone.
Maybe think radically and enforce the opposit of curfews whereas old parents living with their young adults are forced to hang outside at bars/clubs from 10pm to 9am to give their youth some breathing room :))
cowlevel 54 minutes ago | parent
mrits 36 minutes ago | parent
mhitza 35 minutes ago | parent
First that you can't attest who filmed something without a lot of effort that law enforcement for sure won't bother with.
In many countries caught doing such activities in public spaces falls under public indecent exposure, if not something more draconian that puts you on a sex offender list. Morally people will feel obliged to report it there.
cowlevel 31 minutes ago | parent
For example if you post it to Instagram or YouTube they'd know it was you, and you could go to jail.
api 16 minutes ago | parent
api 18 minutes ago | parent
All these trends are happening everywhere to varying degrees with less developed places like much of Africa simply earlier on the curve but following the same trajectory.
So where does it end? I’m skeptical of population doomerism but shrinking population, like too rapid population growth, creates economic and social problems.
On the other hand if we are about to automate tons of stuff it means we need less humans to run things, and if medicine keeps getting better longer life and health spans somewhat offset lower birth rates.
freetime2 1 hour ago | parent
novaRom 59 minutes ago | parent
Btw, is it good or bad for individuals and for society?
iSnow 57 minutes ago | parent
That doesn't make a lot of sense. 50hr/w was the norm in many countries till the 1960's or so, and yet people were having lots of babies indicating having marriages with sex.
marginalia_nu 43 minutes ago | parent
For some reason when we started sending women out to work, the work they had been doing at home stopped being counted as work. But of course it is work, it still needs to be done. As a result, the modern 50h weeks can be anything between 60-80h weeks depending on your comfort with living in squalor, and the presence of children, it's just we for some reason only count the part you get paid for.
heisenbit 34 minutes ago | parent
tcfhgj 42 minutes ago | parent
Lucasoato 55 minutes ago | parent
Legalize it, organize free rock and roll parties with no phone policy every weekend, see sex and pregnancy rates go sky high in the matter of months.
This and maybe prosecute a parent when he/she kidnaps the children, denying visits or any interaction with the other parent.
Do both please.
cowlevel 55 minutes ago | parent
deadbabe 48 minutes ago | parent
chrisjj 48 minutes ago | parent
Hmm. Did the subjects say worse?
hsuduebc2 46 minutes ago | parent
I would speculate that people can fulfill their need of intimacy online which results in lowered incentive to persuade it in real life.
jeanpah 23 minutes ago | parent
But in the digital world You just swap apps, nobody judges, and You alway get dopamine.
hsuduebc2 2 minutes ago | parent
frangonf 42 minutes ago | parent
> A 2017 survey of Japanese students aged 16–22 found that 14–17 per cent of them admitted to having romantic feelings towards a character in a video game or anime.
TIL about the name of this phenomenon. I see this always in the context of "terminal online anime fan" but it made me think and look into other occurrences of similar parasocial behavior like the early Sherlock Holmes fandom.
With this current social and tech trends I think we are going to see more Pygmalionic SexBots startups in next cohorts.
cowlevel 22 minutes ago | parent
hd4 38 minutes ago | parent
did anyone think to ask them why they didn't want to?
iammjm 36 minutes ago | parent
cowlevel 19 minutes ago | parent
Hitton 18 minutes ago | parent